How to Be a Good Roommate

Alicia Tenise Blogger Apartment TourAh, roommates: I’ve had so many ups and downs while living with others over the last few years! I’m an only child and never had to split anything growing up, so it was a bit of a shock when I moved away as an 18-year-old and split a dorm room suite with three other girls my freshman year of college. 

I just moved into my own apartment, sans roommates, four weeks ago, and I couldn’t be happier. However, I learned a lot by living with roommates for five years, mostly by trial and error. Here are five tips to make living with others as smooth of an experience as possible!

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  1. Make Sure Your Lifestyles Are Similar

    First things first: get to know your roommate before moving in and make sure you have similar schedules/lifestyles. When I first moved out of college, I learned that I liked to wake up early. However, my first roommate out of college? She was a total night owl and would come in at 1 AM every night (and wake me up!). This ended up causing so many problems in the long run, and it could have been avoided had we discussed our schedules before moving in with each other. Also, think of the person’s lifestyle: are they religious? Do they party? Do they like to stay in on Friday nights? These can really be dealbreakers, so make sure to learn as much as you can about your future roommate!

  2. Communication is Key

    A lot of roommate problems can be avoided simply by communicating with each other. I’ve learned you need to pick your battles, and if something your roommate is doing is really bothering you, you need to discuss it with them as calmly as possible. I’ve also found that it’s best to communicate in person if you have issues rather than leaving notes/emails/texts.

  3. Develop a Cleaning Schedule

    What’s been the cause of most of my roommate issues? Cleanliness, for sure! Who hasn’t ended up in an argument about who swept up last, or dishes left in the sink? If you find yourself having these discussions frequently, it doesn’t hurt to set up a cleaning schedule. Rotate chores on a weekly basis so that there’s no question about who did what last. 

  4. Pay Attention to Your Bathroom

    Have you ever realized how disgusting a bathroom can get? Between the hair in the shower, makeup on the sink and who else knows what’s in the toilet — it can get pretty grimy pretty fast! Did you know toilet bowls can contain as many as 3.5 million bacteria per square inch? Yeah, I didn’t realize this either!

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  5. Split Supplies Evenly

    Another cause of arguments for me in the past? Splitting things evenly! We all don’t like to have that awkward convo of who bought what last. I found the best way to avoid this in the past was to go shopping with my roommates whenever we ran out of supplies like toilet paper, paper towels, cleaning products. We would pick out what we needed and ask the cashier to split the bill down the middle. That way, there’s no discrepancy on who bought what last. Easy, right?

What are your best tips on how to live with a roommate?

Thank you to Clorox for sponsoring today’s post! All thoughts and opinions are my own.

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  1. Dana Mannarino wrote:

    I wish you would have written this post while I was in college and living with roommates 😉

    Pink Champagne Problems

    Posted 6.19.17 Reply
  2. Shell Peterson wrote:

    Such great tips!
    Your apartment is looking so beautiful!!
    xo, Shell

    Posted 6.19.17 Reply
  3. Kaylee wrote:

    These are great tips, I agree the bathroom can get very dirty very fast when living with roommates.

    Posted 6.19.17 Reply
  4. Lauren wrote:

    These are SUCH good tips girl. And the cleaning schedule is a must!

    Lauren Elyce

    Posted 6.19.17 Reply
  5. I absolutely agree with everything! Sharing tasks is so important! Also, communication. If you invite friends over, you must say it before coz you still need to warn your flatmates! xx corinne

    Posted 6.19.17 Reply
  6. Supply-splitting/shopping was always the #1 point of tension in college – especially when everyone is on different budget, preferences, and schedules. OY! Definitely helps to communicate it all out SUPER clearly.

    Coming Up Roses

    Posted 6.20.17 Reply
  7. Brittany wrote:

    These are such important tips! My roommate just moved out last month. I loved having her around because we had great communication and it worked out that we each liked chores the other person hated. I was happy to clean the bathroom if she did the floors. Thanks for sharing these awesome products to make cleaning easier.

    Posted 6.21.17 Reply